Question 1

What is surrogacy and how does it work?

Accepted Answer

Surrogacy is an arrangement where a woman (the surrogate) carries and delivers a baby for another person or couple (the intended parents). At Ivy Surrogacy, we specialize in gestational surrogacy, meaning the surrogate has no genetic connection to the baby. The embryo is created using the intended parents' or donors' eggs and sperm through IVF, then transferred to the surrogate. The process involves thorough screening, legal agreements, medical procedures, and ongoing support throughout the pregnancy.

Question 2

Why do people choose to become surrogates?

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Women become surrogates for a variety of deeply personal reasons. Many are motivated by a desire to help others build the families they dream of. Some have friends or family members who struggled with infertility and want to give that gift to others. Surrogates also receive meaningful financial compensation, which can help with personal goals like paying off student loans, buying a home, or saving for their own children's education. Most surrogates describe the experience as one of the most rewarding things they've ever done.

Question 3

What are the basic requirements to become a surrogate?

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To qualify as a surrogate with Ivy Surrogacy, you generally must be between 21 and 42 years old, have had at least one uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery, maintain a healthy BMI (typically between 18 and 33), be a non-smoker and drug-free, have a stable living situation, and be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident. Each application is reviewed individually, and some requirements may be flexible depending on your overall health profile.

Question 4

How much do surrogates get paid?

Accepted Answer

Surrogate compensation at Ivy Surrogacy starts at $50,000 or more for first-time surrogates, with experienced surrogates earning significantly more. In addition to base compensation, surrogates receive a comprehensive benefits package that may include monthly allowances, maternity clothing allowance, housekeeping support, and reimbursement for pregnancy-related expenses. Total compensation packages can range from $60,000 to over $90,000 depending on experience and circumstances.

Question 5

Will I be genetically related to the baby I carry?

Accepted Answer

No. In gestational surrogacy—which is the only type Ivy Surrogacy facilitates—you have no genetic connection to the baby. The embryo is created using the intended parents' egg and sperm (or donor gametes) through IVF and then transferred to your uterus. You are providing a safe and nurturing environment for the baby to grow, but the child's DNA comes entirely from the egg and sperm providers.

Question 6

Is surrogacy legal in my state?

Accepted Answer

Surrogacy laws vary by state. Many states, including California, are very surrogacy-friendly with clear legal frameworks. Some states have more restrictive laws or require additional legal steps. Ivy Surrogacy works with experienced reproductive attorneys in every state to ensure that your surrogacy arrangement is fully legal and protected. During the matching process, we take state laws into consideration to pair you with intended parents in a way that provides the best legal protection for everyone involved.

Question 7

Can I be a surrogate if I've never been a surrogate before?

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Absolutely! Most surrogates are first-time surrogates. What matters most is that you've had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery of your own. Our team provides comprehensive guidance and support throughout the entire process, so even first-time surrogates feel prepared and confident. Many of our surrogates enjoy the experience so much that they return for a second journey.

Question 8

What kind of support does Ivy Surrogacy provide to surrogates?

Accepted Answer

Ivy Surrogacy provides end-to-end support throughout your journey. This includes a dedicated case manager who is your primary point of contact, 24/7 availability for urgent questions, coordination of all medical appointments and travel, independent legal representation (paid for by intended parents), counseling and emotional support, connections with other surrogates through our community, and ongoing communication to ensure you feel informed and cared for at every stage.

Question 9

What makes Ivy Surrogacy different from other surrogacy agencies?

Accepted Answer

Ivy Surrogacy stands out for our personalized approach and genuine care for our surrogates. We maintain smaller caseloads so each surrogate receives dedicated attention. We offer competitive compensation packages, transparent communication throughout the process, and a supportive community of surrogates. Our team has extensive experience in reproductive law and fertility, and we carefully match surrogates with intended parents based on shared values and expectations.

Question 10

Does my family need to support my decision to become a surrogate?

Accepted Answer

While it's not legally required, having the support of your partner and immediate family is strongly recommended and is part of our screening process. Surrogacy involves physical, emotional, and time commitments that affect your household. Your partner (if applicable) will need to attend medical screenings and counseling sessions, and your family should be prepared for the journey ahead. We've found that surrogates with strong family support systems have the best overall experiences.

Question 11

Can I continue working during the surrogacy process?

Accepted Answer

Yes, most surrogates continue their regular employment throughout the process and pregnancy. Unless your job involves heavy physical labor, extreme physical demands, or exposure to hazardous materials, you can typically work as normal. You may need to take some time off for medical appointments and the embryo transfer procedure. Toward the end of the pregnancy, your doctor may recommend reducing work activity, similar to any other pregnancy.

Question 12

Is there an interview or video call required during the application process?

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Yes. Once your initial application is reviewed and you're considered eligible, we'll schedule a video consultation. This is an opportunity for you to ask questions, learn more about the surrogacy process, and help us get to know you better. It's a key step in building trust and ensuring a smooth journey for everyone involved.

Question 13

Can I apply if I live outside the United States?

Accepted Answer

At this time, Ivy Surrogacy works exclusively with surrogates who live in the United States and are U.S. citizens or permanent residents. If you're currently living abroad, we unfortunately can't proceed with your application. However, we welcome your interest and hope you'll reach out if your situation changes.

Question 14

What's the difference between a new and returning surrogate?

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A first-time surrogate has never completed a surrogacy journey before. An experienced surrogate has successfully carried for intended parents in the past. Experience often qualifies them for higher compensation and faster matching.

Question 15

How long do I need to wait after a recent delivery to start surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

Most IVF doctors recommend waiting at least 6 months after a complication-free vaginal delivery before embryo transfer. This means you can start the surrogacy process, including matching with intended parents, completing medical screening, and legal contracts, around 3-4 months postpartum. These preparations typically take 3-4 months, so embryo transfer can occur as early as 6-7 months after delivery. However, some doctors may require a minimum of 9-12 months. For C-section deliveries, the minimum interval is usually 12 months. At Ivy Surrogacy, we ensure all surrogates undergo thorough evaluations to confirm they are ready for the journey.

Question 16

Are irregular periods a problem when applying to become a surrogate?

Accepted Answer

Irregular menstrual cycles don't always disqualify you. As long as you have a healthy uterus and meet the other medical criteria, your cycle can often be regulated during the IVF process with medications.

Question 17

Will taking medication affect my eligibility to become a surrogate?

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It depends on the medication and the condition it's treating. Some prescriptions are perfectly fine, while others may require evaluation. During your screening, our team will review all medications to determine your eligibility.

Question 18

Can I still be a surrogate if I've had an STD in the past?

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In some cases, yes. If the infection was treated and fully resolved—such as chlamydia or gonorrhea—you may still qualify. However, active infections or certain conditions like HIV or hepatitis B/C may disqualify you.

Question 19

Is age a strict limitation for becoming a surrogate?

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Most agencies—including Ivy Surrogacy—accept surrogates between the ages of 21 and 38. However, eligibility also depends on your health history and previous pregnancies. If you're slightly outside this range, you may still qualify depending on individual circumstances.

Question 20

Do I receive extra compensation for carrying multiples?

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Yes. If you're pregnant with twins or more, you'll receive a multiple pregnancy bonus to reflect the added medical risk, physical demand, and responsibilities involved. The bonus amount is determined before pregnancy and included in your contract.

Question 21

Will I receive any compensation before I get pregnant?

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Yes. Surrogates typically receive several payments before pregnancy begins, including a contract signing bonus, medication start fee, and embryo transfer fee. You'll also begin receiving monthly allowances after the legal process is completed. Base compensation, however, starts only after a confirmed pregnancy.

Question 22

What should I expect during the embryo transfer?

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The embryo transfer is a simple, outpatient procedure performed at the IVF clinic. You'll likely start medications 2–3 weeks before the transfer to prepare your uterine lining. The procedure itself is painless and takes about 15 minutes. A pregnancy test is done about 10–12 days later.

Question 23

What medical evaluations will I go through as a surrogate?

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As part of your screening, you'll undergo a range of evaluations including bloodwork, infectious disease testing, drug screening, and a saline sonogram or hysteroscopy to assess the condition of your uterus. Some clinics may also include a mock cycle to observe how your body responds to fertility medications. These assessments help ensure you are medically ready and safe to carry a pregnancy for intended parents.

Question 24

Will I have legal representation for the surrogacy contract?

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Yes. As a surrogate, you'll be provided with an independent attorney—paid for by the intended parents—to review your contract and represent your best interests. You'll never be expected to sign anything without full legal support.

Question 25

Do I get to meet the intended parents before moving forward?

Accepted Answer

Yes. At Ivy Surrogacy, we always arrange a video match meeting so you can speak face-to-face with the intended parents before making any commitment. This gives both sides a chance to connect, ask questions, and ensure mutual comfort and shared values before moving forward together.

Question 26

Will I sign a legal contract before starting medications?

Accepted Answer

Yes. All surrogacy contracts must be signed—and legal clearance obtained—before you can begin medications for embryo transfer. Your attorney will help you understand every part of the agreement to protect your rights.

Question 27

Can I choose what kind of intended parents I'm matched with?

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Yes. You'll be asked about your preferences during the intake process. Whether you'd like to help a heterosexual couple, a same-sex couple, or a single parent, we do our best to find a match that aligns with your values and comfort.

Question 28

What happens if the match doesn't work out?

Accepted Answer

If either you or the intended parents decide not to move forward after the initial meeting, we'll return to the matching process. There's no pressure to accept a match that doesn't feel right, and we'll support you in finding a better fit.

Question 29

How is my privacy protected throughout the surrogacy process?

Accepted Answer

Your privacy is protected throughout the surrogacy process in accordance with HIPAA standards. Information is only shared with intended parents or healthcare providers as needed—and only with your consent.

Question 30

What happens if the first embryo transfer attempt is unsuccessful?

Accepted Answer

If the first embryo transfer is unsuccessful, the surrogacy agency will typically schedule a second embryo transfer, with a review and possible adjustment of the medical protocol. Surrogates are still compensated according to the terms in the surrogacy agreement.

Question 31

Can I continue my regular activities and job during the surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

Generally, surrogates can continue with their regular activities and employment during the surrogacy. However, each case is unique, and recommendations may vary based on the specifics of your pregnancy and medical advice.

Question 32

What are the criteria for matching me with intended parents?

Accepted Answer

Matches are made based on several factors including your preferences, the intended parents' preferences, compatibility in expectations, and the medical requirements of the IVF clinic. We strive to ensure that both parties are comfortable with the match for a harmonious journey.

Question 33

Will I need to stop working at any point during the surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

Most surrogates are able to continue working during the early and middle stages of pregnancy, as long as their job isn't physically demanding. However, if your doctor prescribes medical rest due to pregnancy-related concerns or complications, you may need to reduce your hours or take time off. In such cases, your surrogacy contract may provide compensation for lost wages, provided appropriate medical documentation is submitted.

Question 34

How many embryo transfer attempts are typically allowed per journey?

Accepted Answer

Most standard surrogacy contracts include up to three embryo transfer attempts. In practice, some journeys may require fewer attempts—either because a pregnancy is achieved early or because the intended parents have a limited number of embryos. If three transfers are completed without success, and both parties wish to continue, the contract can be amended to allow additional transfers with mutual agreement.

Question 35

Will I receive medical and emotional support after giving birth?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Ivy Surrogacy ensures you receive postpartum medical care through your OB/GYN, as well as access to emotional support if needed. Your well-being after delivery matters just as much as during pregnancy, and we're here to support your recovery and transition.

Question 36

What support services are available to me during the surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

Our surrogacy agency offers full emotional, logistical, and administrative support throughout your journey. This includes counseling, 24/7 communication, appointment coordination, and a dedicated case manager to assist you every step of the way.

Question 37

After delivering, how long will it take before I can return to my normal routine?

Accepted Answer

Recovery time varies by individual, but typically, surrogates can start returning to normal activities as per the doctor's guidance during the postpartum check-up. We ensure you receive support during this recovery phase to make the transition as smooth as possible.

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